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COMFORT FOR MOURNERS Henry Law, 1873
Sorrow has crossed the threshold of your home, and sits a downcast
inhabitant in your heart. You mourn as one from whom all joy is fled.
The saddened countenance--the open fount of tears--the swelling
sighs--the shrinking from needless discourse--the pensive
musing--clearly prove your burden of distress. This grief must spring
from some most crushing cause.
It is so. You drink affliction's bitterest cup. Death has approached
with withering power, and one, most tenderly beloved, has fallen.
BEREAVEMENT, ever working its relentless work, now touches you. You
bow beneath its desolating blow. The form on which you joyed to gaze
no longer lives. The voice, so charming to your ear, can never more be
heard on earth. A vacant seat tells of a sadder vacancy within. The
dear one--dearer far than self--must now be covered in the grave. You
mourn with grievous mourning. Who can marvel? Who would restrain?
With weeping friends the Christian ever weeps. Do not think that
gracious spirits are unfeeling. Grace tenderly transforms the heart.
It makes a dreary waste to bear sweet fruit. It wholly sweetens the
inner man. It implants new hopes--new prospects--new affections--new
desires: but they are all high--unselfish--heavenly. Its province is
to melt, and not to freeze. It is no stoic sternness. It is love going
forth in amiable emotion. It never checks the tears of
broken-heartedness. Hence be assured your grief is not exclusively
your own.
Scripture with melting pathos shows many pictures of the bereaved. It
states, but never chides their grief. Mourners pass the sacred page
attractive and endearing. We honor, while we sympathize.
There is no eclipse of holy dignity in Abraham, when he "came to mourn
for Sarah, and to weep for her."--Gen. 23:2. Where is the heart which
disesteems the agony of Jacob, when, supposing Joseph to be slain by
beasts, "he tore his clothes, and put sackcloth upon his loins, and
mourned for his son many days." He refused to be comforted; and he
said: "For I will go down into the grave unto my son mourning. Thus
his father wept for him."--Gen. 37:34, 35. How many sighs re-echo
David's wail: "O my son Absalom, my son, my son! Absalom! Would God I
had died for you, O Absalom, my son! my son!"--2 Sam. 18:33. The
blessed Jesus with approving love joins in the tears of Bethany's sad
sisters. The Psalmist consecrates the sorrow of an orphan child in the
similitude: "I bowed down heavily, as one that mourns for his
mother."--Ps. 35:14.
It then would be harsh philosophy--far alien from Christian
love--showing no lineaments of the heart of Jesus--crudely ignoring
the endearments of domestic life, which could now counsel you to dry
your tears, and do revolting violence to man's best instincts.
Christian sympathy regards you with much softer mind. "Behold! he
mourns," is a key which unlocks the chamber of condolence. The
question arises, and will not be put aside--Can access be obtained to
that bereaved house? Can any wings convey some words of loving
comfort? Without intrusion or disturbing presence, can tender whispers
soothe; can quiet entrance be gained; can an unseen finger point to
true solace; can the mourner weep alone, and still hear truths strong
to minister relief?
These humble pages venture the attempt. Oh! may they come as a
reviving shower on the mown grass! May our gracious Jesus, whose
office it is "to comfort all that mourn--to appoint unto those who
mourn in Zion to give unto them beauty for ashes--the oil of joy for
mourning--the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness," now show
that He is and ever will be, all that this Word portrays. May it be
found that He who smites, is near to heal--that the arm which
prostrates, is ready to upraise--that this cup of woe is mixed with
precious balm--that the valley of grief often leads to pastures of
enduring peace! Holy Spirit! give Your smile, and then the sting of
suffering is gone.
No comfort can be sound, except God's Scripture is its base. Let,
then, the Word be heard. It thus exhorts the stricken: "Hear the rod,
and him who has appointed it."--Micah 6: 9. Therefore the rod is
graciously ordained. "Affliction comes not forth of the dust, neither
does trouble spring out of the ground."--Job 5:6. It is not chance
which thus bereaves you. Death has not hurled a random-shaft, which
undesignedly has found your dwelling. Your beloved is not borne from
you by the tide of casual current. "God's never-failing providence
orders all things in heaven and in earth." No sparrow falls to the
ground without the counsel of His will. Matt. 10:29.
This arrow flew, then, from a well-poised bow; therefore no rebel
thought may swell. Mercy, wisdom, love, are the inscription of this
trial. Humble yourself with more than meek submission. Let patient
lips, with true sincerity, profess, "It is the Lord. Let Him do what
seems good to Him." Remember Aaron. When the keenest edge of
affliction harrowed his very soul, no murmur, no complaint was
uttered. Deeply he felt--bitterly he mourned--but "he held his
peace."--Lev. 10:3. Emulate the Psalmist's meekness, "I was silent, I
opened not my mouth, because You did it."--Ps. 39:9.
When the sun of prosperity is in its zenith, gratitude adores the
giving hand. Now under this dark cloud let grateful love still
testify: "The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the
name of the Lord."Job 1:21. Forbid it that mere formality should
breathe the often-repeated prayer: "Your will be done." In this rod
read the appointment of your God, the author of your being--the
gracious disposer of your every concern--your constant and all-loving
Benefactor, and acknowledge, "It is well." The love which gave Christ
Jesus to the cross, writes goodness on all minor dealings. Realize
that it is His hand which presses you so heavily, and in its very
weight you will find elements of comfort. Out of the darkness there
will spring up light. Only say, My Father--the Father of all
mercies--the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ--the God, whose
name is love, thus smites, and heavenly calm will lull the waves of
sorrow to repose.
Mark not the appointment only--hear, also, the rod. The rod surely
speaks, and its voice is the voice of God. Your trial is not silent.
It pleads with heavenly eloquence. Breathe, then, the inward prayer:
"Speak, Lord, for your servant hears."--1 Sam. 3:9.
In its approach it may appal, as the loud thunder's clang. It may
shake terribly the very center of your heart. But pause, and you will
hear a still small whisper dealing calmly with your conscience. It
calls you apart to quiet meditation. It bids you, while severed from
the world's intrusions, to ponder your ways--to consider your
state--to hold frank, upright, manly converse with yourself. It
presents a mirror, faithfully reflecting self. It asks most
pointedly--How stands your soul with God? Do you know Him as your
Father in Christ Jesus? Have you received His Son--the gift of
gifts--as all your salvation and desire? Have you welcomed Him as
bringing redemption on His wings? Has your faith gazed on Him hanging
on the accursed tree, and pouring out His soul unto death, that He
might thus atone for all your guilt, and cleanse you by His precious
blood? Do you trust Him as exhausting to the last dreg the cup of
wrath so justly due to each of your innumerable sins? Do you bless Him
as paying to the uttermost the debt of curse incurred by your
transgressions? Do you believe in Him satisfying, as your surety, all
the demands of all the holy attributes of God? Have you the happy
knowledge that this perfect expiation, makes your every crimson dye
whiter than the whitest snow, and levels every mountain of iniquity,
until all disappear. Have you put on His pure obedience, as the
wedding garment, which decks believers for the courts of heaven?
Deeply conscious of your miserable guilt--trembling at the loud
threats of vengeance--renouncing all hope in self--have you fled to
the all-atoning, all-covering, all-beautifying Jesus? Have you
enshrined Him on the throne of your soul, as "made of God unto us,
wisdom and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption?"--1 Cor.
1:30. Do you act loving reliance on the Gospel-message, and personally
embrace its glorious hopes? Can you truly aver, O blessed Jesus,
thrice-adored Lord, "You know all things;" You know that I have
committed my soul to You in full assurance of Your power and
willingness to save!
If so, happy is your state. You are one with Christ, and Christ is one
with you. No power in heaven or earth can part you from the love of
God. In this affliction, He, too, is afflicted. These things all work
together for your good. Yet a little while and you shall dwell with
God, having His name written on your brow, and "God shall wipe away
all tears from your eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither
sorrow nor crying--neither shall there be any more pain, for the
former things are passed away."--Rev.21:4.
Is there not sweetness in the present sorrow which helps you thus to
prove the sure foundation of your hopes, and to uplift, more loudly
than before, the voice of praise for mercies without bounds? But it
may be that, tremblingly, you hesitate. Conscience cannot admit that
faith has raised you to this eminence. You fear that you are still a
stranger to the Spirit's indwelling and converting presence--an alien
to the covenant of grace--not sheltered in the saving ark.
If so, be persuaded. While you thus mourn domestic loss, bemoan your
deeper misery. Weep not for the dead alone--weep too for yourself.
Death has opened your door. No human means could stay its step. It may
relentlessly return with icy hand to tear you hence. You are helpless
to withstand. But where, ah! where would it bear you? Hear one warning
out of many: "He that believes on the Son has everlasting life; and he
that believes not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God
abides on him."--John 3:36.
But yet you live. Yet you have space, and Jesus is beside you--full of
all grace. In this bereavement He seems to stand at the door of your
heart and knock. Rev. 3:20. Open immediately. Admit the willing
Savior. Fall low on your knees in this your house of death. No longer
spurn the mercies of the Cross. Cast yourself into the expanded arms
of reconciling love. Arise a living soul. "Awake, you that sleep and
arise from the dead, and Christ shall give you light"--Eph. 5:14. Thus
may this present sorrow prove to be God's blessing in the highest!
It may be that your heart, believing in the Lord, is conscious of much
recent coldness. The flame which once burned brightly is now sadly
dim. The love which warmly beat in every pulse is partially repressed.
Your former joys droop as a frost-touched leaf. Close walk with God
and His dear Son; and watchful waiting for the Spirit's beckoning
hand; and happy study of the Word; and prayer uplifting above earth;
and holy converse redolent of heaven, no longer are your
pleasure-ground. The cheating world has reassumed some sway. You are
not happy. You have tasted Canaan's grapes; therefore all other fruit
is tasteless. You have walked with your Lord as in a paradise of
joy--other companionship must be a weary blank.
Now, while you bewail your dead, bewail yourself. Depressed in shame,
catch the echo of the many calls--the gracious promises--the tender
expostulations, which throng around backsliders. "Return, O
backsliding Israel, says the Lord, and I will not cause my anger to
fall upon you; for I am merciful, says the Lord, and I will not keep
anger forever."--Jer. 3:12. Plead such tender words. Claim them meekly
as now become your due. The answer will surpass belief. You will find
that while a friend on earth is gone, your Friend in heaven cannot
die. You will realize the sweetness of the truth: "I will never leave
you, nor forsake you."--Heb. 13:5. Your dead one cannot be restored,
but this death may restore your soul.
Your case may yet exceed in wretchedness. While, in your pensive
loneliness, you search the tablets of your heart, you may read clear,
unanswerable accusations. Some hidden lust may lurk like Achan in the
camp. Some evil embers, not yet thoroughly extinct, may smoulder. Some
sin may still detain you with bewitching cords.
Rich is the mercy which brings this misery to light, and warns of an
entangling net, and of a leak imperiling the vessel, and of a
precipice before your feet. Be wise. Flee this Delilah's lap. Dash
resolutely this poisoned goblet to the ground. Do not let this vampire
prey on your life-blood. Loathe yourself in dust and ashes. Confess
the aggravations of your guilt, and wrestle for pardon through Christ
and the all-expiating cross. When penitence and faith thus plead, they
cannot plead in vain. A voice will issue from the mercy-seat: "I have
blotted out as a thick cloud your transgressions, and as a cloud your
sins."--Isa. 44:22. "Their sins and their iniquities will I remember
no more."--Heb. 8:12. You will soon sing with grateful heart: "I will
be glad and rejoice in Your mercy; for You have considered my trouble;
You have known my soul in adversities."Ps. 31:7. Thus a friend lost
may issue in salvation found, and the void which this bereavement
makes, may be filled up by God.
But no delay must intervene. Gain from your present loss may be
obtained today. No man may reckon on tomorrow. Fruit, when ripe, not
gathered, will decay. The soil which showers soften, soon becomes dry.
Perhaps you think this weeping will be life-long--joys will be buried
in this grave--the sun of earthly happiness is set. But the darkest
night will have a dawn. Time's hand has art to efface the writing of
an iron pen, and to heal the scars which sorrow has infixed. To
customary employ you will return; and as you have been, so you may be
again. Unless you come forth wholly changed, you will remain more
hopelessly the same. The furnace, which refines the ore, hardens the
flint. The sun, which melts the snow, converts the clay to stone. Your
sorrow brings a blessing or a curse. The warmth which opens flowers,
revives the frost-bound adder.
Ponder the dreadful testimony: "They would have none of my counsel:
they despised all my reproof."--Prov. 1:30. Remember the solemn
admonition: "Why should you be stricken any more? You will revolt more
and more."--Isa. 1:5. This call may be your last. If you still
slumber, you may be left to sleep unto perdition--quiet, undisturbed,
forsaken. No second affliction may shake your fatal rest. Nahum 1:9.
It is not written in vain: "My Spirit shall not always strive with
man."--Gen. 6:3. He was resisted by sinners before the flood. He is
resisted ofttimes now. He may be resisted by you this day, even beside
a lifeless form.
You have heard, too, of a "reprobate mind." This is no unmeaning
sound--no shadow of an unreal form--no figment of imaginary state--no
term invented to give groundless terror. It is a sad description of a
sadder woe. It is a current drifting to blackness of darkness forever.
If no grace mingles with present tears, your mind, now seemingly so
soft, may harden into hopeless hardness. Forbid it, gracious God, for
Jesus' sake!
Many are prone to lull the mourner with vain fantasies, and bring
false opiates to his lips. But these pages heal no wound deceitfully.
They show no comforts which are empty sounds. At once they point to
Christ, knowing that in Him alone there is salvation and all peace.
Receive Him. All consolations follow in His train. He is the fount of
solace. Heaven is happiness because He is there; and earth is
happiness when He is known.
Your sorrow brings, too, especial hopes. Showers of blessings often
fall from such dark clouds. They have this fringe of cheering light:
"As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten."--Rev. 3:19. The path,
smooth only with unchanging ease, in which no thorns afflict the feet,
is not the road familiar to the heirs of life. Through much
distress--through a waste wilderness of woe--over huge mountains of
affliction--through deep waters of grief--through heated furnaces of
trouble--with weeping eye--with agonizing breast the heavenly home is
often reached.
Your present anguish, then, is hopeful sign, that hidden purposes of
love are ripe. God seems to charge this trouble, as David his
captains, eager for the fight. Deal gently for my sake with my son.--2
Sam. 18:5. He thus prunes His vines to multiply the fruit. The knife
is sharp, but it removes encumbering boughs. The north wind hardens
the stem before the south wind calls forth the buds. The process is
not purposeless. These rigid means are now astir to wean you from the
world, whose ways are death--to unmask the hollow treachery of
creature-charms--to expose the utter vanity of earth's delights. The
lesson is now taught, that all is fleeting emptiness apart from God.
He, and He only, is unfailing portion--a cup of overflowing joy--a
garden in which calm happiness is ever blooming, ever fragrant, ever
new.
Often on these wings of sorrow the Spirit flies to make glad the
heart. In sable garb He comes the harbinger of saving good. In a grim
mask He casts down Satan from His wrongful throne--expels the troops
of vile desires--subdues ungodly lusts--establishes the reign of
righteousness, and peace, and purity, and holiness, and brings down
heaven to abide on earth.
Thus sorrow is the dawn of hope. Unless her only son had died, the
widow of Nain might not have beheld her Lord. He meets the mourner
following the coffin. When God's mysterious ways are known, death will
appear as often used to bring new comforts. Many in heaven will
gratefully confess, We would have died in hopeless state, unless death
had borne off some friend. But by inflicting death, Christ showed
Himself the Prince of life--giving life to lifeless souls, or life
more abundantly to those who lived before.
May these blessings now be richly yours! Through your fast-falling
tears may heavenly love be seen in heavenly light! May Jesus' presence
fill the new made void. And while your happy smiles reflect His saving
smile, may you hear the storm-allaying voice: It is I, be not
afraid--look unto Me and moderate your grief--cast all your care on
Me, and be sustained--receive Me, and be comforted.
And when your secluded days shall end, may you go forth a light to
enlighten--a sweet savor to refresh--a mighty power to attract to
Christ! May He from this day be your total life! Then when you lie
down to die--and die you must, except His coming shall prevent it--may
death, which is a Christian treasure (1 Cor. 3:22), be welcomed with
no shrinking fear. May you extend a willing hand. The messenger,
though black, will bear you to your waiting Lord. You will then learn,
what words of man can never teach, how great a Savior is the blessed
Jesus; and how salvation infinitely exceeds what hope can paint, or
heart conceive, or flesh and blood inherit.
But you must wait until your change shall come. Job 14:14. Take heed
that all your waiting days be chastened--savored--hallowed by this
grief. The house of mourning is a teaching school. The painful lessons
are severely kind. Turn not away--the harshness is but seeming--the
profit may endure forever. Distasteful weeds supply the thrifty bee,
and give large stores of honey. Juicy berries hang on a prickly briar.
Samson found sweets in an unlikely hive. Lasting impressions come from
heavy blows.
Lose none of the improvements of the recent scene. You witnessed death
accomplishing its work--irresistible--unrestrained--mocking all
opposing means. It came and conquered. At its touch the strength
declined--the vital powers ebbed--the luster of the eye grew dim--the
color faded--the senses laid aside their functions--the fluttering
pulse stood still--animation was no more--the heart no longer
moved--the spirit fled its tenement of clay--nothing remained, but a
stranded wreck--a tenantless abode--an empty casket--a deserted shell.
Death displayed its ruthlessness and might. It put forth its barbed
sting and laughed resistance into nothingness.
It is instructive now to ask, How is death armed with this tremendous
sway? What furbished, what supplied its weapons? What placed a
helpless world beneath its conquering feet? Whence its commission to
give the inhabitants of the palace and the hut alike, a banquet to
devouring worms?
Now ponder the enlightening reply; SIN is the origin of death. "By one
man sin entered into the world, and death by sin, and so death passed
upon all men, for that all have sinned."--Rom. 5:12. Learn that sin
slew your friend, and all who ever died. Sin locks earth's offspring
in its foul embrace, and so consigns them to the arms of death. Survey
the lifeless frames from Abel to this hour--huge is the pile--the
whole is piled by sin. It digs all graves--constructs all
vaults--peoples each graveyard. In all the tears which have bedewed
the dying and the dead--in all the mourning which now racks your
heart, and has made earth the home of sighs, behold the work of death
through sin. You see it now in your own house. Oh! see it rightly, and
you will largely gain.
Profit will not be small, if henceforth you hate sin with deadlier
hate. View well the monster in true light--the enemy of God--the enemy
of man. It changed fair Eden into a wilderness of thorns, and
blackened angels into fiends of hell. Never give truce to such a foe.
Cry for the Spirit's help to drive it from each corner of your heart.
Unless you slay it, it will be your ruin. Nail it to the Savior's
cross. It will fight hard, and struggle long; but cease not the
encounter. Take courage. Play the man. The believer can do all things
through Christ who strengthens him. Phil. 4:13.
Grace will expand, while, thus abhorring sin, you steel your breast in
earnest opposition. This is rich gain. Your sorrow thus yields profit.
But richer gain is near. Look now with more loving gaze on Jesus. He
seeks you with most fitting comfort. Of every ill He is consummate
remedy. He more than heals each wound--repairs each breach--retrieves
each loss. But especially He comes the mourner's healer. He bids you
mark His death-subduing work. Behold Him as annulling
sin--annihilating death. He sprinkles sin with His most precious
blood, and it is blotted out--no trace remains. He sets His conquering
feet upon the power of death, and it is crushed--it lifts no more its
head. As you bewail your dead, hear His triumphant shout, "I am He
that lives and was dead, and behold I am alive for evermore, Amen; and
have the keys of hell and of death."--Rev. 1:18. "I am the
resurrection and the life: he that believes in Me, though he dies, yet
shall he live; and whoever lives and believes in Me shall never
die."--John 11:25, 26. Clasp now to your heart the record, "As in Adam
all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive."--1 Cor. 15:22.
Drink the full cup of comfort, "If we believe that Jesus died and rose
again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with
Him."--1 Thess. 4:14.
Anticipate this promised day, and tears will cease. It speeds apace.
It may be very near. The angels may be standing now with wings all
ready for descending flight. Earnest expectation listens for "the
shout of the Archangel and the trumpet of God." Let faith go forth to
meet the conqueror coming in His power. We too, so many as are His,
shall bear our part. "When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then
shall we also appear with Him in glory."--Col. 3:4.
"We shall all be changed." How changed! Thought staggers, while it
strives to picture. Words fail in utter impotence to tell. But the
Spirit's hand uplifts the veil, and we are called to gaze. Amazing
glories are portrayed, and the reality will gloriously exceed.
The body crumbles into dust touched by corruption--the prey of
loathsomeness--offensive to the shunning sight. But it shall rise--how
changed! No flower blooming from its wintry tomb--no bright-winged
flutterer bursting from its grub-shroud, can give similitude. It shall
rise in incorruption--ever fresh in undecaying beauty--ever shining in
immortal luster. "As we have borne the image of the earthy, we shall
also bear the image of the heavenly."--1 Cor. 15:49.
"It is sown in dishonor." We hide it as less than worthless in our
eyes. We consign it to its native dust--we lay it low, lest it should
taint the air. "It shall rise in glory." The brightness of the mid-day
sun is black as sackcloth beside its brilliancy. Concentrate all the
rays that ever shone, it shall outshine them all. Image our Lord's
transfigured glory, the new body shall not be less bright.
"It is sown in weakness." No log can be more impotent. It has no power
to stir. Raise the hand--it falls. It shall rise with more than
giant-might--girded with strength--clothed with power, as a warrior's
panoply. We reckon angels to be strong--one smote in the camp of the
Assyrians in a night 185,000. A glorified saint is not inferior in
power.
During its fleshly state, the frame was animal--linked to all the
littleness, and ills, and clogs, and weights which burden nature. It
shall rise wholly spiritual--light--agile as the very air--fleet as
the wings of wind. "Though you have lived among the pots, yet shall
you be as the wings of a dove, covered with silver, and her feathers
with yellow gold."--Ps. 68:13. But the power and beauty of the
resurrection-robes cannot be fully known until their clothing be put
on.
Where, then, shall death appear? No search can find it. It is wholly
and forever gone. It has vanished as the fabric of a dream, or as the
morning dew. It is utterly destroyed. It is swallowed up in victory.
Fully drink the comfort of this prospect, and smiles will dry up
tears. Uplift your downcast eyes, and watch for the streaks of the
approaching day. Think, how brief is death's apparent triumph, how
soon its chains will all be severed--and all its captives regain
liberty! Go forth in faith, and mark its final abolition. Hear the
shout of resurrection multitudes: "O grave, where is your victory! O
death, where is your sting!"
Do not your comforts swell as a wide-flowing river, while buoyant on
these wings of thought you give due praises to our Lord? His is this
victory. His the commanding voice which calls to deathless glory. Give
Him full thanks, and happiness will surely brighten. Adore Him and
rejoice. Pour out your ardent hearts. It is sweet exercise.
Brief is the time in which your gratitude can be evinced. Waste not
another grain. Let thoughts of death and deathlessness quicken your
tardy spirit. Then these days of mourning will bring life-long joys.
It will be heaven begun to take each step intently riveted on
Christ--ever listening for His voice--measuring the breadth, and
length, and depth, and height of His salvation--soaring high above the
charnel-house of earth--watching for His sure return--inhabiting by
faith "the building of God--the house not made with hands--eternal in
the heavens;"--2 Cor. 5:1--going forth to join the white-robed
multitude whom He shall lead unto living fountains of waters--who
shall obtain joy and gladness--and from whom sorrow and sighing shall
flee away."
The loss which brings these comforts to your heart should not be
regarded as hostile arrow from an adverse bow.
This trial calls you to especial prayer. It is the Spirit's rule. "Is
any among you afflicted? let him pray."--James 5:13.
Happy affliction which inspirits prayer! Our hearts are prone to
cleave to earth--to nestle in soft ease--to shun the effort of
wrestling with God. Such indolence is injury, and tends to poverty of
soul, and is a barrier to a flood of joys. It is a loving hand which
shakes this rest. The rod is kind which drives a truant son to school.
Absalom fires the fields of Joab to obtain an interview.--2 Sam.
14:30. The voice of mercy in this trial calls, My son, come hold more
close and constant converse with Me. What! if an ear on earth be dead,
your gain is vast if you talk more with God. Unlock your care. Pent up
vapor may do deadly hurt. Let it fly heavenward. The dove will return
with olive-leaf.
Quicken now the art of communion with heaven. Live more above. Then
when you, too, go hence, you will but move from God to God. In better
place, you will retain like company. Converse of prayer will end in
converse of praise. In happier nearness communion will be the same.
The grief is gain which thus enlivens prayer.
Here faithfulness must warn that ENEMIES infest the mourner's path.
Double the watch on every avenue of Satan's entrance. He now draws
near, expectant of admission. He well knows his favorable times. Dark
clouds encompass you. You sit alone. In darkness the thief goes forth.
The lonely traveler is attacked. Jesus, alone and weak, is tried by
all the powers of hell. Job's solitary woe lays bare his breast. The
arrow quickly seeks him, "Curse God and die."--Job 2:9. Unnerved by
sadness, you will hear the wily whisper, Is this the proof of heavenly
love? is this the pressure of a tender hand? are these the dealings of
beneficence? surely this sorrow might have been withheld! Thus Satan
will strive to inject hard thoughts.
You may not listen or hold parlance. In holy horror turn the back. The
sun is not removed when clouds obscure the rays. God seems to leave,
that we may seek Him with more speed. It is a noble word, "Though He
slays me, yet will I trust in Him."--Job 13:15. This gale is rough,
but let it drive you to a Father's arms, and it will not be adverse.
Win now another victory for unwavering faith, and show its power to
trust amid all storms.
You now have precious opportunity. Let it not escape unused. Many eyes
observe you. Let them see your shining light and godlike lineaments.
Let meek submission--Christ-like patience--unmurmuring acquiescence
gild as a halo your bereaved state. Let it be seen how firmly you
trust God--how confidingly you drink the bitter cup--how lovingly you
bow before the rod--how unreservedly you bless the chastening hand.
Thus the reality of your experience may convince, where previous
arguments have failed. Thus many may be led to say, Surely the anchor
is strong which holds the ship in such a storm--the rock is firm which
such a billow cannot shake--the joy is true which even now faints
not--the help is precious, which can thus sustain. Is there not
comfort in the hope that your demeanor may win others to receive the
truth of God, and cause some doubting hearts to cry, "This people
shall be our people--this God our God--this Savior our Savior--we will
now welcome Christ as ours forever!"
You will reap comfort too, if from this grief more Christian ZEAL
shall spring. Perhaps hitherto your soul has slept on downy beds of
hopes and promises. Precious indeed they are. Their cup is filled to
the brim with joy, and we may drink abundantly. "Rejoice in the Lord
always, and again I say, Rejoice."--Phil. 4:4. But it is sickly faith
which only muses and plucks flowers. Real grace will toil with hands
on the plough, and feet in the furrows. Without activity health fails.
By motion the limbs and sinews strengthen. By exercise we grow to the
measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ.
At this moment ask your conscience, whether you are laboring--your
lamps burning--your spirits ardent in well-doing. Is it your morning
question, "Lord, what will You have me to do?"--Acts 9:6. Rest not
until you can reply, "Lord, here am I, send me."--Isa. 6:8. Another
cannot indicate your special call. But urgent work is surely at your
door. The poor--the sick--the ignorant encircle you. These you may
visit--relieve--comfort--teach. A chair awaits you beside dying beds.
As deer pant for the water-brooks, so many a broken spirit longs for
the tidings which your lips might bring. Haunts of misery and vice
invite your steps. With loving words you may arrest the wandering
sheep. Timely counsel may rescue many from hell's gates, and pluck
brands from eternal burning. Angels have no such privilege.
While then you sorrow, arm yourself for work. And limit not your zeal
to home--to family--to parish--to neighborhood--to a native land. Much
need is here. More is beyond. Traverse the globe in thought. What
deserts of heathen night! What nations, tribes, and peoples, fast
locked in chains of death! Perishing masses cry aloud, "Come over and
help us."--Acts 16:9. Behold those countless idols--each seems to
reproach you for allowing it so long to rule and to deceive.
Do not say that you have no wings to fly to distant climates. Be it
so. But you have means to speed heroic champions longing to go forth.
You may forego some luxury--deny some cost--restrain some lavish
taste, and thus have means to swell missionary funds. You may collect
and circulate the gospel message. Your fire may kindle many energies.
Your example may proclaim the Christian duty. Your tongue may tell the
heathen need.
Thus your friend's death may be the birthday of new happiness. It is
ever true that in activity there is a glow of healthy joy. In the
delight of holy work mourners have no time to mourn. Self and distress
give place to lively guests.
You will find too that in his toil the Gospel-laborer receives good
wages. There is repayment in the thought, "By grace I do my best for
Him, who has done all for me. By the Spirit's help I live for Him, who
lived and died and lives again, my Savior and my God. His eye is ever
on me. So too my eye is ever toward Him. He has my all, who is my all.
Poor and scanty is my best service--but such as it is, I place it at
His feet, and realize by faith an accepting smile--and foretaste the
welcome, Well done, good and faithful servant." May you resolve in
your affliction thus to labor--thus to joy--thus to win jewels for
your heavenly crown!
This comfort now seeks mourners. May many through it gain conformity
to Jesus--our elder Brother--the Man of Sorrows--the acquainted with
grief--who drank of the brook by the way, and now lifts up the head.
When the deceased lived 'one with Christ'--when holy walk reflected
genuine faith--when pious course proved the indwelling Spirit, a
legacy of solid comfort is bequeathed. This should be duly prized. It
is the spring of happiest thought. It may be with devoted love--with
anxious watching--with ceaseless care to smooth the dying road--with
all devices to minister relief, you nursed your loved one to the gate
of death. Perhaps looks of love were interchanged, and parting words
affectionately breathed. In a moment the spirit winged its flight. The
cage was opened, and the bird was gone.
You anxiously inquire, "Where, ah! where is it fled? This earth is
left--what is the new home reached? The fleshy house is void, where is
the recent inhabitant?" The lifeless clay gives no reply. Reason may
guess, and darken counsel with mists upon mists of vain surmise.
Conjecture may dream dreams. Long labyrinths of thought may puzzle and
fatigue, and mazy wanderings leave you wandering still.
But here the Bible dissipates all doubt, and guides to an enchanting
and delightful view. The upraised veil reveals a scene, in which
reality of blessedness resides. Open the eye of FAITH and soberly
behold. Speculation has no need to lend its wings. A faithful record
courts attention. Receive its plain message. It is true as the truth
of God--bright as the heaven of heavens--resplendent with a blaze of
bliss. It fills a cup of comfort to the brim.
Paul is again inspired to speak. Hear and believe. "I am in a strait
between two, having a desire to depart, and to be with Christ, which
is far better."--Phil 1:23. No doubt can cloud the fact, that to go
hence is to join Christ. The saint's departure bears him to the
Savior's side.
Again, approach the Cross and listen while the dying speak. Amazing
light breaks on the contrite thief. He finds a Savior on the accursed
tree. In lively faith he cries, "Lord, remember me, when You come into
Your kingdom." There is no pause--no hesitation--no demur--no doubtful
answer. At once a sparkling promise is announced--a promise cheering
mourners through all time--cheering you in this hour of trial. "Truly
I say unto you, Today shall you be with Me in paradise."--Luke 23:42,
43.
What sunbeams shine from Calvary! Amid them bright is the truth, that
death conveys believers to the company of Christ. The hour of death is
new birth to transcendent life.
Come, listen yet again. Jesus speaks. Mysteriously He communes with
the Father. "Father, I will that they also, whom You have given Me, be
with Me where I am; that they may behold My glory, which You have
given Me--for You loved Me before the foundation of the world."--John
17:24. He prays--the prayer is surely heard. He more than prays. He
states His will--the will as of Jehovah's fellow. The prayer and will
doubly secure a blessed union. Dying believers must then go to Him.
Can you need more? Heaven's signet ring seals this truth.
Blessed announcement! happy tidings! most enrapturing news! most
cheering revelation! What joy--what ecstasy--what transport--what
delight here sound with trumpet-tongue! All that most ardent hope
expected, becomes fruition--all that faith pictured, is outshone--all
that Scripture taught, is fully verified. The faithful pastor--the
assuring friend--gave but the faint outline. Jesus--the precious
Jesus--the adored Lord of salvation--the wondrous purchaser of
wondrous redemption is now seen--seen with no intervening mist--seen
not remotely by the telescope of faith--but face to face in all His
beauty--all His glory--arrayed in all His majesty--bright in all His
smiles of love. There is no dull obscurity--the blissful spirits view
Him as He is. There is no distance--nearness cannot be more near.
There is no partial discovery--they know Him, even as they are known.
This is no momentary glance--they gaze forever.
Can you repine, while the unfettered spirit thus bathes in an ocean of
unfathomable bliss? Think of the recent state. Think of the sure
exchange. Do you not hear a voice, 'Weep not for me?' The blessed
Jesus seems to touch this chord. Let it now vibrate through your
thankful heart. His followers heard, "I go away." They heard and
sorrowed. He checks in tone, betokening reproach–"Do you thus show the
truth of your affection? This grief is selfishness. Would kindness
hold Me back from glory? If you loved Me, you would rejoice because I
said, I go unto the Father--for My Father is greater than I." Should
you not similarly joy, because another saint has reached the Lord?
With Scripture guidance we may yet advance. It is proved, that eternal
union with the Lord is gained. This is the crown of crowns. This is
the pinnacle of joy. But this high tree has branches laden with
diversity of fruit. We are invited to partake of all. This central
light shines in the sky of many stars. We may examine each.
We read, that "he who overcomes, shall no more go out."--Rev. 3:12.
There is rich transport in this knowledge of UNCEASING DWELLING.
Paradise is really reached. Its threshold is indubitably passed. The
soul is truly safe. Salvation verily is won--eternal happiness is a
grasped prize--heaven's portals have received a permanent inhabitant.
Admitted spirits abide forever.
Ponder this bliss secure from diminishing. While the body held the
spirit, fears and tremblings were its daily lot. Timidity often dimmed
the Gospel-page, and veiled the promises, and closed the ears to the
assuring voice, and raised all phantoms of distracting doubts.
Mountains on mountains raised their heights. The way appeared to be
both long and steep. Threatening pitfalls and entangling snares beset
the path. Satan came forth with all his legion mighty to impede. The
thought arose, 'How can this my bark reach the safe haven through
foaming billows--against raging winds--amid such rocks--such
shoals--such treacherous sands.' David's misgiving brought faintness
to the heart. "I shall now perish one day by the hands of Saul."--1
Sam. 27:1.
Where now is this vast host of haunting fears? As smoke before the
wind they are dispersed. They are buried deeply, never more to rise.
The journey is accomplished--the race is run--the crown of victory is
gained--the perils of the voyage are passed--the peaceful haven has
received the bark--it floats in waters ruffled by no storm. Safety
cannot be more safe. Picture the joy of apprehensions left behind, and
certain bliss most tightly grasped. This certainty is real to all the
dead in Christ. What solace to surviving friends!
Scripture presents a page of larger joy. It shows the spirit reposing
in meadows of sunny rest. REST! how sweet the term to worn-out
laborers on earth. But this is the heaven-sent word--"Write, blessed
are the dead who die in the Lord from henceforth. Yes, says the
Spirit, that they may REST from their labors, and their works do
follow them."--Rev. 14:13.
Earth to the Christian is a scene of toil. He is a soldier in a
warring army. Daily he fights the fight of faith. The foe rests not.
His arrows ever fly. Here is the open conflict--there is the secret
ambush. One arm must hold the shield of faith--the other must upraise
the Spirit's sword. Each day brings battle, and in battle is no rest.
His home, also, is a constant watch-tower, not only from the foe
outside, but also from indwelling traitors. The heart swarms with
inborn corruptions, each striving to gain sway. The word is sadly
true, "The flesh lusts against the spirit, and the spirit against the
flesh--and these are contrary the one to the other, so that you cannot
do the things that you would."--Gal. 5:17. There are daily sighs,
"When I would do good, evil is present with me." "I delight in the law
of God after the inward man--but I find another law in my members
warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to
the law of sin, which is in my members."--Rom. 7:21-23. A sentinel
must guard the portals of the lips. Vigilance must keep the feet from
evil ways, and turn the eyes from wicked sights, and close the ears to
graceless converse. Thus every day is weary watchfulness.
There is, also, the husbandman's employ. The heart is a field
requiring constant culture. What fallow ground must be ploughed up!
what seed from Scripture must be cast abroad--what tares--what weeds
must be uprooted! what budding graces must be diligently tended! what
fences must be raised against destroying beasts! Early and late with
agonizing prayer the work must be pushed on. Such is the ceaseless
toil. Ease takes not heaven by storm.
But the happy dead now rest. The flesh is left behind--corruptions are
deep buried in the grave--evil suggestions can no more disturb--the
devil sets no foot in Paradise. This rest cannot be broken. Let us
consider and give thanks!
It must not be ignored, that here believers have sweet tastes of rest.
There are "green pastures" where the sheep repose. "Still waters"
court their feet. Each one can sing, "I sat down under His shadow with
great delight, and His fruit was sweet to my taste."--Canticles 2:3.
The precious invitation calls, "Come unto Me, all you who labor, and
are heavy laden, and I will give you rest."--Matt. 11:28. But this
repose of soul consists with outward conflict. It is rest amid
incessant tossings of unrest.
True is the testimony, "We who have believed enter into rest."--Heb.
4:3. This rest of faith is real, precious, reviving. Faith sees
salvation fully purchased by the work of Christ--redemption earned by
His most perfect merits--all sins washed out by His all-expiating
blood--all the Church beauteous in His beauty--bright in His
righteousness--consummately complete in Him. It marks the fabric
towering above heaven, and ceases from all efforts to add needless
stones. But faith falls short of sight. It fluctuates--it wavers--it
flags--it totters--at times it seems to be inertly dying. But the rest
of sight is changeless. It never ebbs--it is the tide in fullest flow.
It never wanes--it is the sun in mid-day blaze. It never fades--it is
a full-blown flower--ever fresh. Such rest is undisturbed, and
undisturbable. The faithful dead have reached it.
Let us draw near to our Gospel-record. These bodies are liable to
countless pains. No care of ours, can totally avert. No skill can give
sure cure. Afflicted sufferers find no ease by day, and tossings to
and fro wear out the hours of night. But pain expires, when the body
dies. It is distinctly said, "Neither shall there be any more
pain."--Rev. 21:4. And again, "The inhabitant shall not say, I am
sick--the people that dwell therein shall be forgiven their
iniquity."--Isa. 33:24. Keen was your sorrow when perhaps you
witnessed pains beyond relief. Will you not now give thanks for those
whom malady can no more touch?
Believers, although taught that death is their friend, draw back with
shudder from its touch. The blessed Jesus shrunk from the repelling
cup. Faith truly tells, that "when they pass through the waters, he
will be with them; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow
them; when they walk through the fire, they shall not be burned,
neither shall the flame kindle upon them."--Isa. 43:2. But nature is
averse to chilly waters and the scorching flame. Thus dread
anticipations trouble.
Perhaps you know well these solemn thoughts. Then count them happy who
have passed the shadows of the valley. Scripture says, "There shall be
no more death."--Rev. 21:4. Reject not this consoling thought.
The godly have most grievous anguish from ungodly men. Such openly
oppose--and secretly malign--and cruelly reproach--"The poison of asps
is under their lips." The Spirit testifies, "Arise and depart, for
this is not your rest, because it is polluted."--Micah 2:10. The
Psalmist sighs, "Oh! that I had wings like a dove, then would I flee
away and be at rest." Death bears the godly to the realms "where the
wicked cease from troubling, and the weary are at rest."--Job 3:17.
Shall we not give thanks for those delivered from such harrowing
grief? No wicked man will vex again--no evil sound be heard--no
calumny give pain. The atmosphere around is heaven's own peace, and
purity, and love. Each face is bright with sincere smiles.
It is a Gospel rule, "that we must through much tribulation enter into
the kingdom of heaven."--Acts 14:22. Happy they who have these
tribulations in their past! It is so with the blessed dead. But we are
warned that coming woes shall terribly exceed what earth has hitherto
endured. "Then shall be great tribulation, such as was not from the
beginning of the world to this time, no, nor ever shall be."--Matt.
24:21. Appalling miseries will usher in the Lord's return. But saints
at home with Christ are high above these fears. This is the signal
mercy promised to Judah's humbled king. "Behold, I will gather you
unto your fathers, and you shall be gathered unto your grave in peace,
and your eyes shall not see the evil which I will bring upon this
place."--2 Kings 22:20.
Mark too the comfort of the word, "The righteous perish, and no man
lays it to heart; merciful men are taken away, none considering that
the righteous is taken away from the evil to come. He shall enter into
peace--they shall rest in their beds, each one walking in his
uprightness."--Isa. 57:1, 2. Consider this. In happy thought behold
the blessed company screened in their peaceful Zoar, while earth is
unprecedented woe.
But higher ground invites us to ascend, and brighter scenes still
court our eyes. The sight of Jesus implies perfection. Are we not
taught that to behold Him as He is, we must be like Him?--1 John 3:2.
Dissimilarity excludes clear sight. The spirits clearly see Him;
therefore perfect likeness must be theirs, and spiritual faculties
must be strengthened to the full.
Former vision was obscure. Previous knowledge was the pupil's
alphabet. The earthly state was childhood. Now manhood is attained,
and tutors teach no more. Spiritual powers are fully ripened. There is
union with the "spirits of just men made perfect."--Heb. 12:23.
By them God is now truly known--the mind of Jesus is thoroughly
perused--entangled providences are clear--perplexing purposes are no
longer a closed book. The open page reveals how He loved--and why He
loved, and all the mysteries of redemption's scheme. The significance
of each sorrow, trial, and distress is understood. A mirror is
presented, which displays in shining light the wisdom and the love
which ordered every step of every saint from cradle to the grave.
Intelligently the chorus swells, "Great and marvelous are Your works,
Lord God Almighty; just and true are Your ways, O King of
saints."--Rev. 15:3. Oh! the transport of gazing on the blaze of all
the love of the Triune Deity! Oh! the delight of reading the whole
history of each redeemed soul! Such is the joy of Paradise. Can you
believe this, and withhold your thanks?
Into this Paradise Paul was caught up. He witnessed more than he might
fully tell, but still he tells enough to give the clue to happy
contemplation. "He heard unspeakable words, which it is not lawful for
a man to utter."--2 Cor. 7:3. There was no silence. Converse and
praise resounded. Words surely prove the interchange of thought, and
such communion supposes recognition.
Happy spirits mutually know, and are known. To Jesus doubtless adoring
voices mainly turn. But perfect spirits have no limits of knowledge.
The child beholds the mother at whose knees the earliest prayer was
learned--and from whose lips the precious name of Jesus was first
heard. The fond mother renews praise when she smiles on her offspring,
washed in the redeeming blood, and saved before the throne forever.
The pastor sees a number, more than he dared to hope, won by his
teaching to the saving Cross. Converts gladden while faithful teachers
claim them as their joy and crown of rejoicing. Heroes of faith, whom
ages, climates, and distance parted, now compose one recognizing
company. Patriarchs--apostles--prophets, whose writings taught
us--whose examples cheered--whose warnings checked, pass in review,
while every sight awakens Hallelujahs.
But the pen must pause. Who can conceive the glories of the scene,
where all are known, and all are loved by all! where all are blissful
in each other's bliss! and all give thanks for universal joy! and one
harmonious chorus ascribes salvation to our Triune God! There is no
jar in all their praise--no discord in their worship--no jealousy in
all their joy. Grace reigns. Pure praise prevails. The only rivalry is
rivalry of love. Such is the joy which meets believers when they soar
away. Is not the thought now joy to you!
This joy is vast indeed, but it is not complete. It is perfect so far
as the spirit parted from the body can rejoice. But the BODY is
required to constitute entirety of man. The absence of this essential
part makes happiness but partial. Perfect consummation tarries for
this reunion. For this, the happy spirits wait. They know this
fullness to be sure. They know it to be near. They joy in the
prospect, that yet a little while they shall surround their Lord
descending to revisit the earth. Then he will call their sleeping
bodies from their graves. Then the awakened dust will be arrayed with
glory, and spiritual tenements receive their former inhabitants. This
is perfection--perfection in glory--perfection without end.
Who will not cry, "We bless You, O God, for the redemption in Christ
Jesus! We bless You for all the joys of faith on earth. We bless You
for those now living in Your holy service--we bless You for those
departed in Your faith and fear--we bless You for all the bliss of
disembodied spirits in Your presence--we bless You for the coming
consummation of resurrection-life. To Father, Son, and Holy Spirit be
glory without end!"
Let mourners say, 'Amen!' and in their mourning they will smile.
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